By Sicebise Msengana
Relationships are very hard to maintain and require a lot of hard work and commitment. Some relationships fail simply because either parties want to work towards a successful relationship.
Forget about fantasies. Many relationships flop simply because people fall in love with the idealization of ''perfect love''- that the love person is flawless, never grumpy, never sad, never disagrees and will wipe
away all unhappiness. To love in this way is to ask for disillusionment.
Compromise is key. A good relationship doesn't have a master or slave, boss or servant. Compromise for the sake of your relationship. You might win an argument but lose a person. Of course you should point out when your lover hurts you. A wise mind can distinguish between what's hurtful and can be rectified, and what